I know that etiquette and wargaming are a contradiction in terms but I thought I should have a rant about it anyway.
You’ve probably been in this situation before: It’s Christmas morning, and your wife eagerly hands over a gift she’s excited for you to open. The anticipation is high, but when you unwrap it………………………………………….!!??
How do you react?
Most people will put on a happy face and thank her politely — which is the right thing to do. But what do you do with that unwanted gift in the days and months afterwards?
When you are talking about wargame re-gifting is this any different?
Well my wife has learnt that if she wants to buy me something for wargaming to ask for a list from which she can choose as this certainly makes sure it is something I will like and not be re-gifted.
On the other hand, we have all seen “real treasures” in someone else’s collection that they will never use but you are afraid to ask for.
To overcome the problem, we have a “Kris Kringle” tradition in our gaming group of choosing something from your collection that is “horrible”, that is “something you will never use”, and “never know why you bought it in the first place”. Of course, we would never have anything like that in our collection would we!
This year I steered away from that and put together a “dice tray” and a blister of dice for everyone that I had lovingly made. Whilst it was a hit I had let the team down and cheated.
The reason why is because the whole objective of the re-gifting is NOT to provide your mates with something they might use, but to get rid of that “pile of ship” in your cupboard and add to the pile in theirs.! You have utterly failed if they actually do like it!
Well I am glad to say that my re-gift from John G this year failed the test by a long way on both counts. I liked it and he cheated by asking if I wanted it in the first place!!
I am currently working on a set of fantasy rules set in Ancient Egypt and this is what he gave me:
Obviously a “Sphinx” and a “Giant scorpion” will fit with the Egyptian fantasy theme.